All my life, I grew up believing this belief. Even I wrote a blog on it 5 years ago which was all about just believe it to be something that's true and I don't understand it. But now I do and sharing with you below are my findings.
The Logical Flaw in Superstitions
A logical reasoning to why I know it's a superstition is that it kills my freedom. Freedom of doing anything & being myself fully! Some part of me is not happy with it - hence it can't be right! It is just violating the first principle so it's not a law!
A Real-Life Example: Fear of Sharing My Story
Real life example: I feared opening an IG page about me and Han and documenting our travel journeys & life story. Thinking that oh, other people will give us evil eye. Something amazing has happened in my life and I fear losing it.
But it was I, who did not believe in myself and was not true about the core reason of making it.
If it's coming from a true place, believe in yourself. My true place for above story now is that it's from a place where I want the world to know that they can live their lives like us too! Embracing uncertainty. Living an unoptimised life. Also they too can meet the love of their life while traveling or rather when they least expect it. Find joy in small moments.
Shifting from Scarcity to Abundance
I was not seeing the world as my comrades but my enemies and that lead me to scarcity mindset and made me feel I have less kindness and I want to reserve it just for me and my tribe. Made me feel that the evil is too big. But, the more you believe in yourself & your true reason, the kindness in yourself, the lesser this evil becomes. I will not let others affect / control how I feel or what I do.
Huge Insight about Fear
If you cling too much to the one thing - something you REALLY want to happen, attach yourself too much to it -> and you fear you might lose it. You might not accept the other %age chance of that thing not happening. You are too deeply looking at the possibility of ONLY that thing happening. And when that thing doesn't happen, you'll blame / excuse that oh since I told it to people, that's why it did not happen. It's like you're projecting your anger to external world. You just forgot that that life is random & you can experience yourself fully ALWAYS, ANYTIME, in ANY CIRCUMSTANCE. You don't need a certain event to fulfil you. You are already fulfilled.
Embracing Your Inner Strength
Believing in superstitions means doubting the immense power within you. When you shed these beliefs, you uncover the mighty version of yourself that has always been there.
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